I once heard Beth Moore mention something to the effect of praying for your "want to" to change. It has stuck with me and has become an ongoing prayer of mine.
Sometimes I'm not quite at the place of blessing, or surrender, or prayer, or forgiveness, or gratitude, or grace, or...
So instead I pray various iterations of the same theme, depending on my current weaknesses, "God, change my want to. Help me want to see people like you do. Help me want to know you more. Help me want to surrender to your plans. Help me want to live like you do. Help me want to forgive that person. Help me want to not be so selfish. Help me want what you want..."
I can say without a doubt my "want to"s have changed in slow and subtle ways. I still have a long way to go, but I started from a long way off.